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Tip #9 Does the Audience Feel like You are Speaking to them? – Part 2

Yesterday, you learned the power of speaking to one person. Another powerful delivery tip is to use the word “you”

Compare these two questions:

“How many have been to New York City?”

“Have you visited New York City?”

The second question is much more personal and the audience member will feel like you are speaking to them. After asking this, you would pause to let people mentally answer yes or no.

Presentation Tip #9: Use the word “You” frequently and reword general questions and statements.

Skim through your presentation and insert the word you when appropriate. When you get to a general statement or question, ask, “How would I word this if I was visiting with someone in the hallway.” Craig Valentine calls this the hall way test.

We would never say to someone in the hallway, “Who here has vacationed in Mexico?”

Instead we would say, “Have you vacationed in Mexico?”

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Tip #8: Does the Audience Feel like You are Speaking to them? – Part 1

We know we have made a connection when people say “You were talking right to me!”

How can we achieve this connection? This next speaking tip will help.

Speaking Tip #8: Speak to One Person

Good public speaking is all about having 5 to 8 second conversations with each person. Look at the individual and deliver a thought or couple sentences. Do this and you will make an incredible connection with the audience. Read more on speaking to one person